In all systems of world, balance and fixibility of attitudes promotes harmony and stability.

 In all systems of world, balance and fixibility of attitudes promotes harmony and stability. For a comfortable drrive on a rugged road, the car must have flexible shock absorbers. For a confrontation either sides are equally resposnsible. In order to clap, both hands must come together. However, at times, confrontations do become necessary to solve issues. During national crises a country wages a war against another, but in normal day to day living, one does not have an alternative  to compromisse  and reconciliation. Otherwise much energy is lost in solving problems and planning counteractions and possibilities of progress become  remote. It is, therefore, advisable to follow the above policy to ward off aienation. Notwithstanding the possibilities of improvrment in others, one should take a unilateral decision to overcome ones own shortcomings.

Confrontation should be the last resort of a wise man. One should keep in mind that in conflicts there are more possibilities of loss than of gain.

One may hold others responsible for estrangements but often to a great extent one’s own attitude is also responsible for it. Often during confrontation a situation arises, when instead of thinking of reconciliation one assumes a hard line and makes it a prestige issue to be uncompromising. This type of environment is determental for social amity. In family such tensions  decisively lead to disintegration. Amomgst friends minor issues of difference of opinioion magnify into enmity and the erstwhile friends begin to create problems for each other. Confrontation should be the last resort of a wise man. One should keep in mind that in conflicts there are more possibilities of loss than of gain.

"If there are ripples on the surface of a lake,we can not see the depth.similarly, unless the mind is restful, we can not experience the harmony and union within us"

None on this earth is omnipotent to make others behave according to one’s desires. Under  the circumstances there is only one convenient way to act and that is mould oneself according to the existing circumstances and coordinate the activities in harmony. An unfavourable environment is generally created by improper actions by the adversaries.  Improperiety  of actions however, can, at  the most, be counteracted by non- cooperation or by expressing displeasure. In day today living it is not possible to fight corruption by taking help of law  enforcing agencies. It is also not possible to take a confrontation in each and every matter. In principle, active struggle against impropriety is justified, but in practice, it begains endless  process of actions and reactions which besides creating additional new problems do not ensure that the final result would be as desired. Hence it is advisable that understanding basic  facts a total or partial solution to problems is sought  through mutual discussions, which is the only pragmatic approach to resolve all confrontations

SEE THE POSSIBILITY THAT PEOPLE AND THINGS CAN CHANGE AT ANY TIME AND DON'T HOLID ON TO JUDGEMENTS

If mind is not allowed to wander like a wild unharnessed horse, instead of behaving like an adversary it can become one’s friend as well. Contrary to being a storehouse of apprehensions, it can become a creator of umpteen opportunities for man. Once the habit of hair-spliting or finding faults with others is overcome, and that of limbibing virtues and qualities of others is cultivitated, everyone and everything begins to appear and all beings become cooperative. It is one’s own mind which chooses the colour of glasses to see things in the desired colour. The moment these glasses are discarded, truth appears in its naked form. It is a raw mind which weaving the cobwebs of worst baseless apprehensions, entangles its own self in them and then wails and withers in one’s own creation. However, here it may also be clarified that man is not exclusively responsible for personal adversities. It would be erroneous to think that others, do not have any role in creating unfavorable circumstances for someone.  It need not be mentioned that in this world good and bad, virtues and vices are omnipresent. Here, there exists as well light and darkness. Favourable and unfavourable weather of summer winter do come and go. It is not humanity possible to effect a change in events. Nor is it possible to make everything and every event confirm to one’s wishes. There is a limit to which others can persuaded or compelled to act according to one’s convenience.

If by adhering to the desciplines of health, one takes proper care of habbits of food and behavior, there is no reason why like other living beings man too cannot retain perfect health

Each human body has been equipped by the creator with a huge reserve of biological ingredients to make man live a long healthy life. The white blood corpuscles have enormous capacity to resist intrusion by germs and virus and are more or less undefeatable. The chemicals present in the stomach are of such a high quality, that  they are able to extract some nutrients from almost all organic matter. Then why does one fall sick? Why does one face untimely death? There is little doubt that with a few exceptions the root cause  lies mainly in disobedience of laws of nature. If by adhering to the desciplines of health, one takes proper care of habbits of food and behavior, there is no reason why like other living beings man too cannot retain perfect health and unless confronted with accident, live a long life. Amongst the living beings, it is only this homo sapien who makes body weak by irregular habits and therby voluntarily extends  an invitation to infirmity.

Nevertheless man is the crown of creation because of intellectual competence. With this capacity only homo sapien has been able to change this desolate earth from its primordial raw state to a land bedecked with articles of arts, crafts and things of beauty and joy.

The intellectual competence of man surpasses all other attributes of human body. Imbibed in human brain are innumerable superlative characterstics of contemplation, emulation, memorizing, retainment of experiences, and traits of virtue. It has an unparalled capacity of conceptualization, sharpness of intelligence and derivation of conclusions after analysis. Without these intellectual specialities man would not have got the present excellent status in the biological kingdom in which each being has its own specific competence. Provided same intellect, animals like elephants crocodiles, tigers and lions would have easilaly wiped of the human species from face of the earth. Is man capable of flying like aquatic birds and animals? Can a human being run fast like a horse or a tiger? Is it possible for man to enter vegetation and live therein like worms and insects? Does a human even possess the capacity to proliferate like flies and mosquitoes? Nevertheless man is the crown of creation because of intellectual competence. With this capacity only homo sapien has been able to change this desolate earth from its primordial raw state to a land bedecked with articles of arts, crafts and things of beauty and joy.

This is the greatest gift of God which turns an ordinary person into a luminary.

Whatever glamour appears in this world has not come into exixtence simply because of wealth and resources. Hidden behind each outstanding achievement in this world is the will of some creative genius who formulated the project at an appropriate time, erected a framework, provided for necessary infrastructure and then finally realized the desired dream with total mental and physical involvement. Success is the name of this very process. One need not seek help of others for achieving success.

One who makes a perseverant endeavour to develop mental faculties  and developing them responsibilities, acquires an efficacious  organization skill, by virtue of which wherever one goes, he is bound to be crowned with success. This is the greatest gift of God which turns an ordinary person into a luminary.